Friday, December 28, 2012

In Loving Memory Of One Unique Lady

December shaped up to be a dark and dreary month as friends and members of In The Dark lost a friend, member and administrator.  Joni Gardner was lost to a house fire she did not escape from earlier in December.  The loss has been profound for her friends who have really rallied around one another to pay tribute to her fun loving spirit and nature. To say goodbye and remember such a wild and wonderful woman.

Joni will be best remembered by me as a mother and friend.  I met Joni online and was drawn to her unique character from the start.  We seemed to be in the same places and ended up with the same friends and connections online for a few years.  Inevitably she joined my website and became a valuable contributor who shed her insight into many matters which normally included love and peace.  She had an eye for beautiful pictures and graphics and I always enjoyed reading what she had posted on the sites we shared.

Joni was not a friend I knew as well as I should have.  Sometimes when you travel in internet circles there are also dramas and gossip.  Some people end up guarding themselves carefully while I do know Joni was not one of those.  She was always speaking her mind and did not know the meaning of laying low but many times over she did not strike me as disrespectful to any involved when she spoke upon her views or a situation we may have become involved in.  I admired her for being true to herself and for her style and intelligence.

She was a hippy and somewhat older than me but she really did inspire me to take a closer look at things.  I have never been a conformist and I think she must have had that sense of me which meant we just got along the majority of the time.  We teased one another about being rainbow riders and finding that rainbow connection.  We shared laughs but the time was way too short.  I was very shy where she was very open and out there.  We did not get to talk and chat the way we might have had we more time.  I will always regret not spending more time with her.  I could never ever forget a friend who expressed she only wanted my happiness. She once encouraged me to go for it as far as mending my shortcomings for my son.  In the end she was always on my side and quick to share a positive thought.

I thank you Joni Gardner for being who you were.  So beautiful and so loving.  What we didn't get to in this life I sure hope we will in the next.  Until we meet again....


Joni Rae Gardner
January 26, 1956 - December 13, 2012




Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Legend of the Christmas Stocking

A Christmas stocking refers to an empty sock or sock-shaped bag that children hang on Christmas Eve in the belief that it is to be filled with presents by Santa Claus. The gifts are generally of a small nature, consisting generally of small toys, goodies like candies and fruits, coins or other such items that are often referred to as stocking stuffers or stocking fillers. The bigger gifts are wrapped in present papers and placed near the Christmas tree.

The tradition of Christmas stockings is said to have originated from the actions of a kind noble man named Nicholas, who was born in 280 AD, in Patara, a city of Lycia, in Asia Minor. While still young, his wealthy parents died in an epidemic. A true follower of Jesus Christ's principles, Nicholas became a Christian priest and used all his riches to help the poor, the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life in the service of God and was made Bishop of Myra at a young age. Bishop Nicholas became known throughout the land for his kindness and generosity. A true celibate, Nicholas never married and had no children of his own. But he loved children greatly and often gave gifts to the kids of his hometown. This is why, he became known as the gift giver of Myra. A rich man, he traveled across the country helping people, giving gifts of money and other presents. However, Nicholas always gave his gifts late at night, so that his identity would remain a secret. He did not like to be seen when he gave away presents, so the children of the day were told to go to sleep quickly or he would not come! Nicholas was eventually named the patron saint of children and sailors (because of his concern for sailors and ships) and came to be known as Saint Nicholas.

Through the centuries many stories and legends have been told of Saint Nicholas' life and deeds. One popular account tells us of a poor peasant who lived happily in a small cottage in Patara, Saint Nicholas' hometown, with his wife and three daughters. But their happiness was short-lived when the wife suddenly died of an illness one day, leaving the poor man and his three daughters in despair. All the burden of household chores now fell upon the daughters while their father trudged on with his life with a heavy heart.

When the daughters reached a marriageable age, the poor father became even more depressed for he knew he could in no way marry them off to good men. In those days a young woman's father had to offer prospective husbands something of value - a dowry. Without a dowry, this poor man's daughters were unlikely to marry. The helpless father looked around desperately for some solution while her daughters did their own cooking, sewing and cleaning.

Meanwhile, Saint Nicholas had come to know of the poor peasant and his daughters. Knowing the financial condition of the father, the kindly saint decided to help him. But he wanted to do this secretly. So he went to the peasant's house one night with a bag of gold and waited for the family to go to bed before he could throw the bag through the open cottage window.

That night, after finishing their washing for the day, the daughters had hung their stockings by the fireplace to dry. Little did they know that their benefactor was hiding nearby, waiting for them to go to sleep. A little later, as they turned of the lamps and fell asleep, St. Nicholas tiptoed to the cottage window and peeked inside. In the light of the moon, he saw the daughters' stockings hanging close to his reach. He carefully put in his bag of gold in one of the stockings and went away as stealthily as he came.

When the father found the bag the next morning and opened it, he was ecstasic. There was enough gold in the stocking to pay for the dowry of one daughter. It seemed like a godsend to him. Who could have sent it, he wondered. With this timely gift the father was able to provide for his eldest daughter and saw that she got married to a nice groom.



On another night Saint Nicholas set off with one more bag of gold, and threw it carefully into another stocking, so that the second daughter was provided for.

When his daughters excitedly brought the bag to their father the following morning and opened it, he could not believe his eyes. With this gift the father was able to marry off his second daughter too.

But by this time, the father had grown eager to discover his mysterious benefactor, and next night he kept on the lookout. Then, for the third time Saint Nicholas came with a bag of gold upon his back and walked on to the window. The old lord at once recognized his fellow townsman. He fell on his knees before the kindly Bishop, cried out in joy and gratitude and thanked him with all his heart. With his blessings of Saint Nicholas, the poor father was able to see his three daughters get married. He lived a long and happy life thereafter.

And this is how the tradition of Christmas stockings is said to have started in the European countries. It is also believed that Santa Claus is actually an alteration of this same Saint Nicholas, Santa standing for Saint and Claus for Nicholas.

Since then children have been hanging Christmas stockings or putting out shoes, eagerly awaiting for gifts from Santa Claus. Originally, children simply used one of their everyday socks, but with time special Christmas stockings were created for this purpose. Today, Christmas stockings of a wide variety of styles and sizes can be found in gift stores across countries. There are also special Christmas stockings available in the market.

In modern culture, Christmas stockings are also a popular homemade craft. Some families design unique stockings for each family member. Many families create their own Christmas stockings stitching the name of each family member to the stocking so that Santa knows which stocking belongs to which family member.

In some countries, the contents of the Christmas stocking are the only gifts that a child receives at Christmas from Santa Claus. Western Christmas tradition dictates that a child who behaves badly during the year will not get a gift in their Christmas stocking and will receive a piece of coal instead.

In many places, the Christmas stocking is to be stuffed by a gift that will stimulate the five sensory organs. Traditional celebrations of Christmas demand that the stocking be hung on the fireplace mantel. However, since many contemporary homes do not have fireplaces, stockings are hung in almost any location.

Today, children all over the world continue the tradition of hanging Christmas stockings. Kids of all nations look forward to Christmas and when the stockings are hung, they know the most anticipated time of the year is not far behind.

Read more at http://www.theholidayspot.com/christmas/legend_christmas_stocking.htm#4VZbJREPCfiirqtR.99

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

MIA Holiday Mojo?



December already!  I am in disbelief that the Christmas and Yule season is coming full speed ahead.  Ready or not it's holiday time.

One of the problems I am having as a new blogger is that it is hard to find new and unique things to write about.  Posts can of course range from the magical to the practical so I guess I will just continue to muddle through and hope someone can relate or at least smile from my blog.  I did know for certain that as I have been sitting at my laptop for the past several days I have been lacking some holiday post inspiration so today I decided why not make it my starting topic.  I think too many of us have lost the spirit of this season mostly for the obvious reasons of no time and too much commercialism.  If you have or do feel this way do you think it's spiritual?  Have we just grown up leaving no time to truly enjoy parties and gift exchanging?  Politics of the actual gift giving and receiving?  Haha the politics of gifts...  wow that can be a post all by itself!

I think my own lack of spirit comes from, brace yourself cause I am going to admit it, lack of funds to be truly festive.  Now before you stop reading or hit the 'page back' key I just mean sometimes I get to thinking that if my life had gone differently I might be able to celebrate in any style and with great fun.  I cannot afford a fancy tree and expensive decorations.  My stockings always come from the dollar store and  can never justify the expense of a lot of holiday plants such as a lovely poinsettia that would look divine on my little front porch.  I do know that Christmas is not about money and we could have a great yet small and festive holiday with what we can afford or scrape together because honestly to me it's more about family and being together.  I love getting presents but I am just as happy if not more so to give those presents.  So my dream of bigger and more glittery comes from my heart but I know what's it's really all about so have no fear!

Aside from my missing fortune what else is contributing to my MIA holiday mojo?  Hmmm...  I live with a scrooge who really is not about listening to carols or watching the Christmas specials.  I do these things anyways but not as loudly or necessarily in front of the most comfy room in the house.  I have a son who is give me, give me, give me so as long as he gets a few choice treasured items on his wish list he's good.  Nobody ever wants a second turkey after Thanksgiving for Xmas dinner so it's almost always ham around here.  Oh but by far the best and most noble reason to loose your love of the holidays is having worked more than 7 years in retail, in a mall, on my feet, Christmas eve and the day after!  The pushing, the mess, the crowds....  Oh yeah....  who has spirit after that?!

Just writing this all down has actually helped me.  Just thinking it over it doesn't seem so bad because I know through the years my holidays have changed.  I have had good ones and I certainly have had bad ones.  I am most lucky though that I get a new chance every year for a new experience.  I can become more and more grim over time looking at only what I don't have or what those around me are lacking or I can try even if in some small way to be grateful for what I have.  So what if the biggest tv in the house is not available for my old holiday movies?  I still try to watch them and always end up enjoying them in the end.   I just need to make my peace with my less than perfect life. Hey and what do you know -  the spirit of Christmas is actually still there just buried down deep.  Hiding behind a not so pleasant memory it seems!


In Tribute...
In closing it wouldn't be right to not include the fact that during an extermination of my home last week my cat got out.  In the 2 years I have had her she has never spent anytime outside.  I know she has natural animal instincts but I am worried and mourning her loss.  She was my friend, familiar, family member, daughter and companion.  While I am certain my spirit was already badly affected by the ups and downs of those have and have not's my kitty will be sorely missed so in tribute I wanted to include a little something for her.  If I can overcome this loss right before Christmas than nothing else will ever spoil this joyous time of year for me again.  I am trying to go on as I hope she is too wherever she may be.  Love you my precious Chanel.  Be safe and know I will always love you.


Saturday, October 27, 2012

Just Batty



Bat, Power Animal, Symbol of Rebirth

By Ina Woolcott 


Bat's wisdom includes shamanic death and rebirth, initiation, viewing past lives, pollination of new ideas, transition, understanding grief, the use of vibrational sound, camouflage, invisibility, ability to observe unseen, secrets.

Shaman initiates go through a ritual death, sometimes with the aid of teacher plants and/or fasting. Here they confront their fears and are reborn without their old identities. Bats help us to release fear and patterns which no longer fits within our pattern of growth.

Bat flying into your life signifies that transformation of the ego self is about to occur, the end of a way of life and the start of another. This transition can be very frightening for many, even just to think about. But you will not grow spiritually until you let go these old parts of you that are NOT NEEDED. Facing the darkness before you will help you find the light in rebirth. The bat gives you the wisdom required to make the appropriate changes for the birthing of your new identity.

Bats have needle like teeth and can sometimes be rabies carriers, an infectious disease of the blood. It can cause a person to go mad. Fears that are permitted to spread, unchecked will in the end saturate our system, and can create a kind of madness within our lives. Bats reflect the need to face up to our fears. (Has anyone ever seen Batman Begins with Christian Bale? An amazing movie AND an amazing actor!)

There are various species of bat, with widely diverse traits. There are small and large bats. With a couple of exceptions, large bats live on fruit and get around visually. Smaller bats mainly feed on insects, catching them on the wing using echolocation. This is where an animal makes sounds and listens for the echoes reflected from surfaces and objects in the environment. With their amazing auditory perception bats are able to navigate through the dark with great ease. They have built in sonar’s, which give them the ability to know what lies beneath the surface. Generally those with this power animal have uncanny abilities to discern hidden messages both from people and the environment. When one has mastered this medicine, intuitive and clairaudient abilities are accurate.

Studies have bee carried out on bats such as being put in a fridge. When this happens they immediately go into a hibernation mode. When taken back out and warmed up they are totally unharmed, unique for a warm blooded mammal. This shows that the bats life force is strong, and it regenerates it when needed.

If this is your power animal, you would benefit from all types of yogic practices, especially those to do with awakening the kundalini.

Bat are extremely adaptable. All that has to do with them from their senses, feeding, flight and mating to size is perfectly matched to their particular environment. The message for you here may be to assess your surroundings to see what bounty is there for you for the taking, and then adapting/changing patterns so you can receive it.

Unbalanced bats will get ‘scrambled’ and perplexed, flying into things. Are you coming up against obstacles as you try and get what you need and want in life? If so the message for you here may be for you to take a step back to re-gain your bearings and decide the importance of what you are seeking.

Bats are sociable animals which can indicate a need for more sociability or increased opportunity with greater numbers of people.



Bats in Magic, Potions, and Medicinal Preparations

by Gary F. McCracken

Linking bats to witchcraft and magic has given rise to many of the fears people have about bats. Today in the United States, we see this association in Halloween decorations, horror movies, and scary novels, but it reaches back into antiquity and is found in many parts of the world. Throughout history, bats have often been considered the familiars or even the alter egos of witches.

In 1332, Lady Jacaume of Bayonne in France was publicly burned because "crowds of bats" were seen about her house and garden. Shakespeare invoked bats and witches in several of his plays. The "wool of bat" in the brew of Macbeth's three witches is a prominent example of the association, as is Caliban's curse on Prospero in The Tempest: "All the charms of Sycorax, toads, beetles and bats, light on you."

The use of bats in witchcraft survives even in modern times. As recently as 1957, a California taxidermist sold bat blood, presumably for witchcraft. Other contemporary references include a report from Ohio claiming that bat blood can call evil spirits, and another from Illinois asserting that it gives witches "the power to do anything." There are also reports of bats used for witchcraft in Mexico's Yucatan, and bat wings are often in the conjure bags of African-Americans in Georgia.

But not all myths bring to mind frightening acts; some ascribe wondrous magical properties to bats and associate good luck with them. Unfortunately for the bat, most of them require its demise. An ancient belief found both in the American Midwest and the Caribbean is that bathing your eyes in bat blood will allow you to see in the dark. Many other beliefs suggest that bats have the power to make people invisible. While collecting small samples of bat blood in Trinidad, West Indies (for use in genetics research, I might add), a Trinidadian told me that if I drank the blood I would become invisible. Tyrolean gypsies have a similar belief, claiming that carrying the left eye of a bat will accomplish the feat. In Oklahoma carrying the right eye of a bat pierced with a brass pin will have the same effect, while in Brazil a person carrying the hearts of a bat, a frog, and a black hen will become invisible.

Bat magic can also be an antidote to sleepiness. In both ancient Greece and Rome, it was believed that you could prevent sleep either if you placed the engraved figure of a bat under your pillow, or if you tied the head of a bat in a black bag and laid it near your left arm. In many parts of Europe, a practice said to ensure not only wakefulness, but also to protect livestock and prevent misfortune is to nail live bats head down above doorways. Not for the faint of heart, this practice was reported as recently as 1922 in Sussex, England and may indeed continue today. Canadian Indians relate that bat "medicine" can also bring about the opposite effect of staying awake; traditions claim that placing the head or dried intestines of a bat in an infant's cradle will cause the baby to sleep all day. In a similar vein, Mescalero Apaches believe that the skin of a bat attached to the head of a cradle will protect a baby from becoming frightened.

Bats have also been said to induce love or desire. In Roman antiquity, Pliny maintained that a man could stimulate a woman's desire by placing a clot of bat blood under her pillow. In Texas, one lovesick suitor was told to place a bat on an anthill until all its flesh was removed, wear its "wishbone" around his neck, pulverize the remaining bones, mix them with vodka, and give the drink to his beloved. A similar love potion from Europe recommends mixing dried, powdered bat in the woman's beer.

Bat hearts or bones are often carried as good luck charms. Variations on a belief that apparently began in Germany, and have been repeated in the United States, predict that bats bring good luck at cards or lotteries. The prescription is to wrap a bat's heart in a silk handkerchief or red ribbon and keep it in a wallet or pocket, or tie it to the hand used for dealing cards. Some also believe that tying a silk string around a bat's heart will bring money.

Another superstition from Germany relates that bullets from a gun swabbed with a bat's heart will always hit their target. According to the Egyptian Secrets, attributed to Albertus Magnus in the 13th century, mixing lead shot with the heart or liver of a bat will have the same result. Some American Ozark pioneers had another variation of this belief: they carried the dried, powdered hearts of bats to protect them from being shot and to keep wounded men from bleeding to death.

It is common in folklore that the desired effect of a potion or medicinal preparation reflects real or imagined characteristics of the ingredients. (We've heard about cannibals eating the heart of a valiant but vanquished foe to obtain the foe's courage.) It is also common that the desired effect of a potion can be the opposite of the characteristics perceived in their ingredients. It is easy, therefore, to imagine the motivations for some bat preparations thought to cure various maladies.

The association of bats with human hair (BATS, Summer 1992) is seen here too. Many beliefs in Europe and the United States relate the value of bats' blood, or their excrement, as a depilatory. But in England and North Carolina the use of bats' blood has been advocated to prevent baldness. In India, using a hair wash of crushed bat wings in coconut oil is said to prevent both baldness and graying of hair.

Medicinal preparations using bats are legion and have been recommended for many other maladies. Folk healers prescribe a large variety of bat preparations for problems with vision, ranging from dimness to cataracts. Other bat folk medicines are said to be remedies for snakebite, asthma, tumors, sciatica, fevers, a painless childbirth, or to promote lactation. Sir Theodore Mayerne, who lived in the 15th century, prescribed "balsam of bat" as an ointment for hypochondriacs, his recipe consisting of "adders, bats, suckling whelps, earthworms, hogs' grease, stag marrow, and the thigh bone of an ox." In the 1700s one physician recommended that, properly prepared, the flesh of bat was good for gout. Folklore from Brazil suggests taking dried, powdered bat as a remedy for epilepsy. In more modern times, Texas folklore advocates drinking bat blood to cure rheumatism and consumption, and asserts that rubbing warts with a bat's left eye will remove them.

We can trace many of the folk remedies and magical properties ascribed to bats directly to their physical features and lifestyles. Wakefulness at night or sleeping all day are well-known characteristics of bats. Although none are blind (except by injury or congenital defect) and most have good vision, "blind as a bat" is still a commonly heard phrase, and many people believe it. But before the discovery in the 1930s that most bats use echolocation to navigate both at night and in total darkness, many people were convinced that bats not only had excellent vision, but that they could actually see in the dark. The use of bats to treat ailments of vision is therefore not surprising.

The extensive folk association of bats with hair can likewise explain their use as a depilatory or for preventing baldness. A less likely possibility is that bats are believed to promote lactation because, for their size, lactating female bats can produce a truly prodigious supply of milk for their young. Perhaps even more fanciful is that the 18th century doctor might have imagined bats to be a remedy for gout because they rest with their feet above their heads.

Obviously, the origins of many bat folk medicines are extremely, if not completely, obscure. Why should bats cure tumors, help hypochondriacs, or induce love? (In colonial North Carolina, eating roast bat was a recommended cure for children who ate dirt. Where did that one come from?)

Linking bats with witchcraft and magic, and ascribing other mystical powers and properties to them has certainly contributed to our apprehension about such seemingly strange and miraculous creatures. However, as we learn more and more about bats, we find that the truth is, in many ways, more miraculous than the legends.

[bio] Gary McCracken is a professor in the Department of Zoology and the Graduate Programs in Ecology and Ethology at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. He has studied bats for many years and is author of the entry on bats in The Encyclopedia of American Folklore and Superstition.




Are bats a delicacy in some countries?

by Christen Conger
Off the coast of Tanzania, nestled against Africa's eastern coast, sits the island of Pemba. While it's not a tourist hotspot, Pemba boasts dazzling shore lines, complete with coral reefs, sprawling mangroves and clove trees, which give the air a faintly spicy aroma. Perhaps more impressive than the pristine geography is the anatomy of one of Pemba's native residents.
The Pemba flying fox bat is one of the largest bat species in the world, with a wingspan stretching 5.5 feet (1.6 meters) across. Since the 1990s, conservationists have worked feverishly to preserve the dwindling population. The flying fox bat used to be a routine dish on Pemba dinner tables, and people hunted so aggressively that the International Union for the Conservation of Nature (IUCN) classified the bat as endangered in 1992.
Although the IUCN bumped the flying fox bat's conservation status from endangered up to vulnerable in 2008, it isn't uncommon to encounter bats on the menu in other African and Asian locales. According to Bat Conservation International, there are more than 1,100 species of bats around the globe, composing about one-fourth of all mammalian species. Moreover, the largest, meatiest varieties fly the skies in the Eastern hemisphere.
Bats on the Menu
Travelers in parts of China, Thailand, Guam and even Australia might run across bats in food markets and restaurants. Varieties of fruit bats, including the sizable flying fox bat, are the most popular to eat. When it comes time to cook them up, Pemba islanders usually roast their bats, and other cultures might toss bits of bat into soups and stir-fry. In 1976, Calvin W. Schwabe, defender of strange foods the world over, offered up a simple Samoan recipe for bat in his book "Unmentionable Cuisine." After skinning and disemboweling the bats, Schwabe recommended cutting up the meat and either baking or deep-frying it with salt, pepper and onions.
In "Extreme Cuisine," famed chef Anthony Bourdain cautions traveling gastronomes of a particularly pungent smell that wafts from simmering bat. But the actual flavor should be far more benign. As with many mystery meats, bat reportedly tastes a lot like chicken. To rustle up one's own batty entrée, Bourdain says to season it with some peppers, onions or garlic (not unlike a roasted chicken recipe) to mitigate that strong scent.
Fruit Bats and Emerging Diseases
Sampling local bat may not be a wise choice in light of recent medical developments. In Guam, officials linked flying fox bats to a form of dementia called ALS/PDC; among the native Chamorro people, the incidence rate was 50 to 100 times higher than sample populations. And while fruit bats' insect and fruit diet may seem harmless enough, they may also harbor some unwanted and downright dangerous diseases. Medical experts have traced strains of SARS, Ebola and other emerging diseases back to them. Fruit bats in Gabon, for instance, have been culprits for carrying Marburg and Ebola virus. Officials are mostly concerned about bats leaving behind pathogens after nipping a piece of fruit or passing them along to another animal through tainted saliva, as in the case of Nipah virus in Malaysia. Nevertheless, if savvy travelers are offered morsels of deep-fried bat, they ought to choose health over cultural etiquette and politely decline the exotic snack.


Monday, October 8, 2012

October Groups To Check Out


Halloween and Samhain are often discussed throughout the year on IN THE DARK but for those new to the community or anyone interested in some festive groups here are a few to consider:






Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Rites of Halloween Passages

Halloween/Samhain is without a doubt one of my favorite times of the year.  From the scents of the fall season to the orange and yellows of the dying leaves.  The cool mornings, hot afternoon sun and the chill of the night air.  The should I or shouldn't I take a jacket season!

When I was younger it was really all about the costumes and then as I approached the teen years it became about where I would be going that year and with whom.  Oh the memories I have of the costume parades up ad down the sidewalks outside of the school followed by the classroom parties.  The snacks in their diversity as donated by a handful of parents and supplemented by the teacher.  Never was a shortage of chocolate though!  Then the prizes distributed for the best costumes.  I think I even may have won honorable mention or funniest one year!  I think I was a hobo complete with a plastic cigar.

Earliest outings and festivities aside from school consisted of my dad having a party for me and my friends on Halloween.  He was a cool dad too because he knew about all of the gadgets to make it such a cool experience.  The dry ice in the green punch with the strobe light in the corner.  I visited the local haunted house which turns out was an old stand alone school house.  I never could make it all the way through before it became clear I should be escorted out.  Not too proud of being such a scaredy-cat!  That haunted house inspired me for years to come that not only would I find another equally scary one and master it but also that there was another one in existence that freaked me out.  One year we found the haunted forest.  Only thing really scary about that was the walk through and that there were a few small yet steep hills that were nightmarish in the dark while one is trying to listen and look around for anything deathly waiting to pounce from behind a tree or shrub!

As my friends and I grew up though we did try every couple of years to celebrate but for some of us you loose that initial excitement with the daily grind.  For myself I live in fond memories of good times had.  My son is also at an age I can sit back and watch him have fun and I smile for having the pleasure to relive it again if even in a small way. 

Growing older I have found that my ideas and concepts of Halloween was only the beginning.  I went on to appreciate the beautiful scenery of the season and to learn more about all the tall and spooky tales.  The history and traditions are fascinating to discover.  I have also found that while I am not a Wiccan nor a Pagan the lore associated with Halloween or Samhain is rich and thick.  Also a time of ancestor remembrance and appreciation not just ghouls and goblins.  They say the veil is thinnest  during this time of the year so it is a good time for communication and worship for departed loved ones.

No matter one's age I think Halloween or really any holiday can be a chance to explore and have fun.  Remember and be rich in heart from cherished memories or take the season and look around.  Just cruising around online will open new doors filled with exciting and fun information. 

Have a Blessed Samhain and a Happy Halloween!

Monday, September 17, 2012

September/October Musings

WELCOME To The IN THE DARK Official Blog

This has been around for a bit but I have never had the time to get it off the ground properly.  Being inspired by other communities I thought it high time to give this a go so about every other month I will add fresh material including anything pertinent to the season.

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All Paths Welcome ☯ 
 
 
 
 
My Personal Favorite Sabbat and Time Of The Year
Mabon - Autumn Equinox
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The Meaning and Purpose of Mabon-The Witches Thanksgiving! 

as posted in Confessions of a Kitchen Witch

 http://www.confessionsofakitchenwitch.com/2011/09/mabons-meaning-and-purpose.html


Mabon, the Second Harvest Sabbat, often referred to as The Witches Thanksgiving is often viewed as a time for the celebration of Life, but it is also a celebration of death. The fruits of your labor abounds as you celebrate your bounty from your garden to nourish your family and friends. When you stop to think about it, it is also the death of the plants and vegetables which have been harvested from that garden to feed you. Thus Mabon is a celebration of the cycle of life.

In essence, Mabon represents the time of honoring the dead.Visiting burial sites is often done during this time of year (more of that when
Samhain arrives), as well as being thankful for the end of the harvest season and the bounty it provides. Themes of closing, letting go and remembering the gifts given to you within this past year are paramount and focused upon during this holiday. In addition, it is also a time to honor this harvest and for those who may have passed over to Summerland during this past year.

There are many ways of honoring this Second Harvest celebration. Like stated above, visiting burial sites of those who have gone before you and loved ones who have passed on during the last year and placing an apple  as a marker that you were there. This represents the promise of renewed Life (new incarnation).


Of course creating a
bountiful meal from your garden and inviting friends and family is often prepared. If not a bountiful meal, then canning, preserving, making homemade wine from grapes you may have grown, or making jellies from blackberries, raspberries and strawberries is yet another option.

If deciding upon cooking a meal for your family and friends, a main course can consist of meats, most often red meats. This is just a suggestion since in this day and age of healthy eating, you should prepare a meal that fits your personal lifestyle. A suggestion may be to have your side dishes consist of late summer and early fall vegetables.


During your meal, you can suggest to share tales and happy stories about those you may have lost during this past year. Another suggestion is to share your experiences and review the lessons you feel you have learned during this past season. Reflect on your deeds and actions and give thanks for the gifts you were given.


After clearing away the dishes from your bountiful meal, you can then perform a
Mabon Ritual. There are as many ways and suggestions for conducting such a ceremony as there are people on this planet, so feel free to create what resonates within you and what nourishes your Soul, whether that be a Traditional Mabon Ritual, or something more personal and not as traditional. Either way, it is of Giving Thanks for Everything the Goddess (and God) has bestowed upon us throughout the year and Our Gratitude to All That She/He Does!

 

 

Autumnal Equinox Magic Spell

 

 Now is the time when the Goddess is getting ready to leave us for a while. Most of us today don't harvest our own food, but we can give thanks and prepare for winter. We need to prepare for less sunlight and colder days, which do affect us in ways we are not always aware of. Now is the time to do a ritual to protect our home, health and loved ones before winter is upon us.

The items you will need are:
  • The Bag of Autumn Gemstones
  • A glass with a little red wine
  • Three oak leaves (or the leaves from a tree near your home)
  • One green candle and matches
  • One apple & a knife to cut the apple
Do this ritual on September 22 after 6PM est and before 11:59PM EST. Bathe before the ritual and wear clean clothes.


Put all the items on your clean altar. Put the green candle in a brass or silver candle holder, have the matches close by. Arrange the oak leaves around the candle. Place the wine to the right of the candle. Place the apple and knife in front of the candle. Place your Bag of Autumn Gemstones in front of the wine glass.
When everything is arranged take a moment of silence to ready yourself. Light the candle and say:
I have a light in the darkness
A light for the coming days
I have a light to follow
Take a sip of the wine and say:
I find joy in all I do
I bring joy to all I love
Joy will flow in my life
Remove each gemstone from the Bag (one at a time) and as you do so, say for each gemstone:
The power of this stone will surround and strengthen me
Place the gemstones on the oak leaves.
Cut a piece from the apple and say for the first cut:
In the North the winds will be gentle
Put the apple piece in the wine.
Cut another piece from the apple and say for the second cut:
In the West the days end will cradle me
Put the apple piece in the wine.
Cut another piece from the apple and say for the third cut:
In the South the warmth be with me
Put the apple piece in the wine.
Cut the remainder of the apple in half say for the fourth cut:
In the East the Sun will shine on me
Put the apple pieces in the wine.
Now, take place each gemstone back in the Bag saying (for each stone):
Your power is now within me!
Pass the oak leaves one at a time just above the candle flame and then add them to the wine.
Let the candle burn out. Leave the wine glass with the apple and leaves overnight. Tomorrow pour the wine with the apple and leaves around a tree close to your house.
Put the Bag of Gemstones in safe place that only you know about. Leave it there until the Vernal Equinox in March. The power of the gemstones will be with you and anyone in your home for the winter. Next March take the gemstones out and cleanse them.

 http://www.amerindea.com/spell-autumnequinox.html


 

 
 

Sunday, June 3, 2012

- Personal Darkness -

- Personal Darkness -

Many people do not like to talk about the darkness.  Darkness in one's life and darkness within one's heart.  Darkness is as common as light but it often get's a bad reputation for being scary and brooding.  I do not agree.  I think we have to be able to have a glimpse of the darkness of ourselves and life to be able to shine and project light.  To fully know ourselves and what we are capable of, the darkness is a necessity.  I think our own fears and depression are not the only things that personal darkness consists of.  What about curiosity?  Learning?  Skill and knowledge.  What is dark anyways?

Darkness is in the eye of the beholder.